The secret to experiencing your fullest pleasure potential.
“Who are you?” said the Caterpillar.
This was not an encouraging opening for a conversation. Alice replied, rather shyly, “I—I hardly know, Sir, just at present—at least I know who I was when I got up this morning, but I think I must have been changed several times since then.”
“What do you mean by that?” said the Caterpillar, sternly. “Explain yourself!” “I can't explain myself, I’m afraid, Sir,” said Alice, “because I am not myself, you see.” - Chapter V, Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland
My dad bought this book for me when I was very young. He would read it to me and eventually I taught myself how to read with it. And reading saved my life. It was my refuge and being a voracious reader is a huge part of my identity. It was part of my BE-Coming and will always be my first love.
Ah, BE-Coming. What a beautiful thing. It is the secret to happiness, fulfillment, and the ability to experience your fullest pleasure potential.
Here’s the deal.
If you don’t know who you are, and I mean the REAL you, not the you who you think the world wants you to be. If you don’t know - or acknowledge is actually a better way of putting it, because you definitely know already - your dreams, your desires, your values, your boundaries, your wants, your needs, all of it, you will not be able to reach your maximum potential for happiness, health, wealth, success, fulfillment, and pleasure - IN and OUT of the bedroom.
So BE-Coming is that journey to acknowledging - truly KNOWING - all of that. It is the space where you look at all of the ways you have changed, the reasons for the changes, and the changes that you want to put into place so that you can start SHOWING UP and TAKING UP all the SPACE that is your divine right to inhabit.
It’s not always easy. In fact, it can be down right fucking terrifying at times. And, honestly, too many of us shy away from it because we are scared. And I get that. Boy do I get that. I’ve been scared so many times and I lived outside of my true Self for a majority of my life. And let me tell you one thing. There is NOTHING as scary as that!
I didn’t believe that until I felt what it is like to BE the real, true me. And that took years of heartache, pain, cancer, unfulfilling, unhappy, and “failed” relationships, bad and sometimes unhealthy sex, years and years of education in a field that I wasn’t passionate about while seeking to prove myself to other people, and loads of unnecessary stress.
Any of that sound familiar? We all get in that rut at times. ALL of us!
And BE-Coming is the way out of it. BE-Coming is the path to pleasure, to happiness, to fullfillment. It is a path that is laid out in front of you right now. Will you take it?
It’s not a journey which you have to, or even should, take alone. Ask for support. Let people know that you are focusing on your needs. Invite other womxn who have gone - or are going - through this process to share and to provide space for you to do the same.
Jump on into the Village and let your voice be heard! You will be amazed at how sharing with others will help you on your own journey. We can’t wait to meet you!